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A smiling couple stands in front of a house, embracing and looking joyful. The woman has long blond hair, glasses, a pink floral top, white pants, and brown wedge sandals. The man wears a black cowboy hat, a white short-sleeved shirt, blue jeans, and brown boots. The house behind them has a white exterior with wooden accents, lantern-style light fixtures, and house number 9061.

We’re Courtenay and Owen Burkholder—founders of Refined to Rise. We help men, women, and couples break free from what’s holding them back so they can rise into healing, identity, and purpose with Jesus at the center.

Through powerful coaching, soul-deep retreats, and biblically grounded tools, we create space for transformation. Whether you’re rebuilding after loss, navigating a new season, or longing for deeper alignment with God, our mission is to help you live boldly, love deeply, and build what lasts.

Refined your Focus

Rise with purpose

Identify your starting point

What is step one when creating Refined life? It’s not as hard as you think.

Bring your ideas to life

Remember those amazing ideas locked up inside your mind? Make them real.

Sell your vision to others

Learn to present yourself and your concepts with confidence.

Expand your horizons

Break through walls to turn your small working business into an empire.